live Alone

live Alone

The meaning of life is a journey. A journey where thousands of people will meet you, talk to you, befriend you and it will break and disappear in the blink of an eye. But not all the paths of life will be cut beautifully. Because you don’t know the value of happiness if you don’t see bad times. Similarly, even if you do not come in contact with the difficult times passed on the path of life, you will not be able to understand how confident and confident you can be from within. Just as no one knows when hard times will come, no one can tell what to do during those times. Some people think that this time will never end. This low self-confidence in yourself sometimes makes you lose your winning bets.

Man cannot live alone. In all times of trouble and danger, the people close to him are the first to extend their helping hand. Loneliness sometimes becomes unbearable because people cannot live alone. Not only to overcome that loneliness, but also for mental health, you need a person to be near, to be by your side. Everything that will be by your side in time and time, will trust you in danger.

Relationships help us recognize the varied joys of life. Spending time with loved ones surely fills the memories. But that doesn’t mean everyone’s life will be the same or always the same. Sometimes solitude becomes essential. This solitude is very useful for self-understanding. Loneliness gives people experiences that cannot be realized in any other way. Loneliness is a terrible disease that will burn you, but not kill you. Every moment will remind you that you cannot be like everyone, there is no one like you. This invisible disease will eat you to pieces but there will be no trace of it in your blood. So no one can catch your illness, your pain. You burn, burn to ashes. From those ashes will rise again like a phoenix bird (a bird that is born again and again from ashes). No one will understand your bleeding, destroyed, no one will understand your loneliness.

When excessively upset, people become completely silent. Loves to be alone. Because then no one sees or evaluates his problem as his own. So loneliness is the only companion of people in times of depression. Being alone for a while gives itself to loneliness. He himself does not understand how he lives. .

Loneliness usually refers to being alone or being alone, but it is essentially a mental state. Loneliness occurs when people feel empty and close themselves off from everyone. People suffering from loneliness often want to communicate with others but cannot do so due to their mental state. Change in mental state doesn’t happen in a day, you have to stumble little by little. You have to lose with your mind, with your will. If I talk a little about myself then I have to say — for the last 70 days I have been staying alone in a house in Dhaka. So much for the situation. If he wanted to, he could have gone to his family instead of giving in to this situation. But did not go for some reason. It would be wrong to say I didn’t go, I didn’t go on purpose. Be it resentment towards the family or something else. Have I had a good time? Alone in a house, no mother, no servants, no one to talk to. A person can become so lonely if he has a lot of self-conceit, complaint…!! The clever paw of loneliness in a very busy life is crashing again and again today. So that this loneliness does not come, let’s try to keep ourselves busy to eradicate it. I gave myself up in loneliness, I gave up so much that I forgot the feelings of spending time with loved ones. I forgot the last time I went in front of my loved ones, the last time I went home, I forgot the last time I laughed from my heart. Drowning in loneliness, I forgot I was still alive. These moments help people get to know each other very well. Loneliness gives people some very terrible experience…. Loneliness has become one of the most irresistible companions today, like a moth’s nest with the diversity of lifestyles.

No one knows what is going to happen in life tomorrow, maybe this writing is the last writing. Yet our imaginations about this uncertain future are endless. And this imagination sometimes becomes a means of making thought and life difficult.

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Rahat Uddin Jewel (Temporary Guest Of This World)

Freelancer, Content Writer, Language Translator, Freelance Photographer, Fixer, TranscriberResearcherPhotoVideographer|VisualStoryteller, Cox's Bazar Bangladesh